This is a term I often refer to simply because it validates so many awesome people. Growing up I often felt that I did not measure up constantly comparing myself with the top 5%. Those that were cooler, skinnier, faster, taller, smarter, richer or you can pick your own.
I graduated middle of my class 228 of over 500 @ First
Colonial High School in 1975. I ran the New York Marathon in 1987 and finished
10,635 out of 23,000 runners. I am 5’7”
and not too fat however not skinny either.
The list could go on however I think I made point. I reside in the middle!
One could simply view the world as Top / Middle /
Bottom. There is a lot of competition
for that “top” spot however there is simply little room. My goal, get comfortable in the middle. There are a great number of us that reside
here.
I recognize that this is a bit of an over simplification
however it serves me and how I operate in this world. I enjoy the company of everyone I meet. I am empowered daily by “normal” people doing
heroic things. People expect the “top”
to always perform however it impresses everyone when the “middle” exceeds
expectations. Therein lies the "magic"
I now run an organization that gives everyone a chance at
greatness. We do not seek the best only
those that want to help out the folks that reside at the “bottom and a few in the “middle”. We seek
out the heroes among everyday people and celebrate their noble deeds.
The way I have it
figured the “middle” represents the largest segment of folks in my
community. It is those folks that I call
my friends and choose to hang out with.
Granted I know some “top” folks, doesn’t everyone? Friends in high places are a gift to us
all.
Being happy in this world is a pretty good goal to
accomplish. I am happy to call myself a
“middle man” and feel like a “top man when I help a “bottom man”. Not a bad philosophy. One could call it “Noble” bi-da-boom!
I will finish with this…writing gives me something to check
off my list. It allows this middle man to bathe in a
better feeling of legitimacy. Somewhere
in my persona I feel that communicating a piece of wisdom is a privilege and an
expression of a gift.
Writing also gives me a voice to those folks that I haven’t
yet met!
Your favorite “Middle Man”
Al Midgett
aka
NobleOne
Awesome Al! That is a very motivating way to look at things. I feel like I'm always working towards the top, but hangout in the middle. Maybe it's the best place to be.
ReplyDeleteThanks Kevin, I enjoy looking at things differently so I don't stay up at night trying to compete. If you are comfortable in you own skin it certainly relieves a lot of pressure to be someone you are not meant to be!
ReplyDeleteVery good reminder to all that the middle can actually mean BALANCED. Well done! - Rita
ReplyDeleteSuch an uplifting and positive post. Consider me subscribed! Looking forward to keeping up with your blog. So glad that Betsey Reid shared your link on FB.
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