Sunday, October 30, 2016

Persistence


There are many great virtues to admire in people, however I think my favorite is "persistence."

Life is just gonna throw some lemons your way, it's simply part of what gives balance to almost everyone.  When the valleys enter your life, the peaks often feel miles away.

I've watched my son Matt struggle with so many challenges, from starting out life given only a 2% chance of living.   Middle school almost did him in and then on to fight more than his share of inner demons.  Recently, I'm witnessing some potential peaks and applauding each an every one of them.

Years ago watching a Steve Martin movie, his mother illustrated the life analogy of a roller coaster ride. You simply cannot enjoy the ride without the ups and downs.

Some folks would describe my life as filled with cake and ice cream, however like most, my meals are sometimes tough to swallow.  Recently I've been beaten up beyond what I've experienced in quite a while. I am however fortunate that good friends and glimpses of light at the end of the tunnel encourage me to keep my head down in the face of stronger winds than I'm use to.

The words "one day at a time" clearly resonate in a life of persistence.  It continues to amaze me the difference a day makes.

I would encourage anyone that is facing a challenge, to give yourself some quiet time and listen to what the world is offering up. Also to pay attention to answered prayers that don't initially feel that way!

Time will allow wisdom to prevail!

Keep both eyes open, ears listening and a positive attitude and wait for your peaks.  The valleys are your teachers and you need to respect them!

NobleOne









Sunday, October 23, 2016

I love a good wave!


One thing that sets me a part from others is my love for riding motorcycles. For almost as long as I have been riding bikes I have also had one with a motor on it!

While riding when you pass a fellow biker a "biker's wave" is typically exchanged, and I got to say it's simply cool!

There is a certain brotherhood and sisterhood in riding motorcycles and this is clearly demonstrated every time I ride when I get the opportunity to wave at a fellow biker!

It's never elaborate, just a simple acknowledgement to a fellow rider!

When I attended Ferrum College a few years back in western part of Virginia, it was simply bad manners not to wave to just about everyone you saw.  When I got home I missed that!  There is a difference in rural folks and city folks.  ...and I have to say I prefer the first!

The best of me was constructed by people in my life.  It has been a long ride down many roads, lanes,streets and intersections.

As luck would have it I get to venture down new roads as I move forward in my next career.  I look forward to new adventures and meeting new folks!

I will remember to "wave" and look forward to greats folks that return the favor.

NobleOne

Sunday, October 16, 2016

Going Back To My Future!


Due to recent changes in my life due to actions by others, my future is altering it's course! Oh what a difference a day makes!

First steps moving forward I was not sure how or what direction my actions would take me. That being the case I jumped forward and back to examine what simply felt right.

I introduced myself to new folks and business opportunities, picked up new books and made lifestyle changes.

Fortunately my past was full of old friends and great business contacts so I picked up the phone and fired up Facebook, emails and old memories.

Just like putting on worn in great boots and old jeans, things started to feel comfortable again.  My confidence returned and I started to walk a little bit taller!  (nice feeling for a Midgett)

I initially resisted "going back" however I quickly realized that I was now armed with new skills and a cadre of phenomenal contacts that I call my "best friends."

Today my future is still uncertain however the anxiety is now removed.  Credit goes to being married to a wonderful soulmate, a half full mentality and a whole bunch of great friends!

Over these many years I have had the privilege of reading many great books and today they are serving me well.

You simply cannot predict a new life change; however I consider myself lucky that I live "one day at a time" knowing that tomorrow my future can still be bright as well as wonderful.

My good friend Keith was enduring a similar reality and we spent time together sampling proper reactions to our current scenario.  The lesson learned was not to "punk out."  Keep your head high and recognize that everyone doesn't see the world through your eyes.

Not sure where all this will go however the radio is now playing "Take me home country roads and that sounds good to me!"

NobleOne

Sunday, October 2, 2016

Best Friends!

I'll start this out by saying I'm damn fortunate to have married my best friend!


Several times in your life you are gonna get kicked in the shins  and it is not fun or pleasant however it does give your best friends a chance to step in and help you pick up the pieces. 


Facebook gave me the opportunity to let the world (my world) know that I needed help finding a living wage in order to support my infrastructure that I have built a lifetime creating.

In past lives, working for different companies I have made great friends and immediately they reached out and offered legitimate opportunities to throw my way without hesitation or even much consideration, I was touched and continue to be as they have not slowed down.


As CEO of The Noblemen I have had the privilege of changing lives and some of those lives are bending over backwards to allow me to move forward.  Some with agendas and others simply a loving helping hand.


Yesterday I spent time watching and listening to my best friend Pete, smiling inside remembering so many awesome things we did together to change lives including our own.  Forever thankful!


Coming home I got my weekly call from Pete Smith (a true surf legend) thanking me for being his best friend when he needed it the most!


Chris Caton turned his bike around on the boardwalk to reach out and renew a very long time friendship that I have missed.


Phil Kellam stepped out of his big time government business to offer anything available from the great city that he represents.


Every minute I am home I have a black lab that stands at attention ready to love on me in ways no humans are capable of.  I love my Marlin and thankful to my good friend Bonnie that gave him up and in doing so repaired our family!


I could go on forever talking about my friends; however I hope the point is well taken...I am blessed by friends and so thankful that my journeys have introduced me to some of the finest this world has to offer!


Today and the days that follow I will keep my head held high knowing that my greatest assets are simply a phone call or an email away!


Thanks to all of you for being my friends and know that I love your all!


NobleOne